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Warren, that is a beautiful monument. I notice that you and Tricia were born just 9 days apart. I can't imagine how difficult last month was, with both Christmas and Tricia's birthday just days apart. I feel very honored that you are sharing your grief and your trip plans with us. Again, if there is anything that we can all do to help you with your trip please let us know. This is one heck of a supportive group, that I know from experience. God bless you and your family.

Have a great trip. The only advice I've been given: "When tough situations arise......talk. Doesn't matter who....just talk about it. Don't pretend it doesn't exist...just talk about it." Not sure if it applies here, but it seems like a good idea. My condolences.

Warren- What a tragedy. So young. After thinking about this some, I realize that maybe I do have $.02 worth of advice for you after all. When I was in High School, one of my good friends lost his mom to breast cancer. It was a long illness, and it was hard on his family. His dad, who we all thought was a great guy, went off the deep end. He basically withdrew from the family, and spent his time at work or at bars. My friend was on his own. Next thing you know, the dad had a girlfriend, and ended up getting remarried less than a year after the mom's death. The new wife moved in with the

I'm so very sorry for your loss. That's a really sweet stone, too, and a wonderful way to show a little bit about who she was and what she loved. Hope you have a beautiful trip to the Fort.

Sorry to Hear about your loss

Warren - your words are so true and are words to live by.

If it were me, this is what I'd want. I'm sure parts of it will be hard, but hopefully the happy memories will bring you some peace.

I'm not an expert here either....wish I had something inspiring to say. I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you and your children have a great trip. Do whatever you are comfortable with and pace yourself. It sounds like you have so many amazing memories and it's such a blessing that you have the chance to make many more. She's looking down on all of you and she wants you to be happy. I, too, like the idea of a new ritual. :) Safe travels. You'll be in our prayers.

So sorry for your loss. But have a great trip make lots of new memories and remember the old. When are you coming? If there is anything we can do to help please let me know, I only live about 1hr away and would be glad to help in any way I can.

BLC, how many kids and what are their ages? How long will you be at the Fort? If you haven't noticed, Fort Fiends love families large and small. Keep us in the loop leading up to your visit.

BLC I remember you from the other place and always liked ur name. So sorry to hear about the Mrs. Not going and letting the kids grow up at the fort would be ashame and you're very strong. I hopw her spirit will let you enjoy the past and future. Bless your family.

I am so sorry about your wife.. but as the others have said, I really hope that this trip will be filled with good memories of her and new special traditions will get their start. :)

I noticed that you are around my age. I can't imagine how hard this has to be for you. I pray that you and the kids have a wonderful trip, remembering your wife and enjoying each other. I'm praying for you. If there is ANYTHING you need to make this trip special, please let us know. I can tell you that the Fiends are very good at helping folks make the most of their trips.

I know if any thing ever happens to me I hope my wife still has fun taking our little girl places. I hope you and your kids have a good trip.

Sorry to hear of your loss ~ but glad to hear that you and your family will be returning to the Fort. I know this trip will be a difficult one, but hope you and your kids have a fantastic time, and can't wait to read your trip report.

Wow. I didn't know you lost your wife. I am sorry. All I know about dealing with grief is that it is complicated, and what works for one person does not always work for another. I am not qualified to give you advice on this subject, but I do hope that you and your family have a great trip, and that it ends up being a positive thing for all of you. TCD

I hope your trip is filled with fond memories and new traditions.

My heart goes out to you, must be hard

Have a great time. Remember to enjoy all the things that made your wife enjoy the Fort. Maybe you and the kids could create a new ritual to do together every trip.

I think you are doing something great. I don't really have any advice but to remember how much fun you had with her there and try your best. Remember we are here supporting you.....